Before I knew where the gay hangouts were, I had one significant affair.
True, an unsuccessful one, as it soon became clear. It was sometime in the
mid-1960s. I was already in my second year in the college. The institute was
not prestigious, the student were not attractive - mainly from rural areas,
and, basically, it was "Slavic colorlessness". Of all this faceless
mass, only a few representatives of the Caucasus stood out clearly. It was they
who attracted my attention, and with through various schemes and tricks I tried
to get to know them (at the time everyone smoked, there were smoking rooms,
people easily entered into conversation there, and this made my task easier).
I liked one student with very dark oily eyes. He was from another faculty.
It took me a long time to get to know him. I studied his class schedule,
“accidentally” appeared near him when his lectures ended, stalked him in
different places. In the end, we got to know each other. His name was Basil, he
turned out to be an ethnic Greek from Tbilisi, Georgia. He was several years
older than me and lived in an institute hostel. We began to communicate and
meet, walk and chat. One evening we went to the park, sat down on a bench and
began kissing passionately. And it was he who started it first. Well, I
thought, my dream has come true! I “ordered” it for myself, and here it was. I
fell in love, was jealous of him, terrible pictures were drawn in my mind that
he was with others, I was jealous of him over women who brazenly flirted with
him. For a long time this bench in the park, where we first began to kiss, was
a holy place for me, I often went to sit there.
It was necessary to somehow fuck, finally. He lived in a hostel, my parents
were at home. I've been waiting a long time for the moment when I'll be alone
in my apartment. And then one day my family went for the whole evening to the
theater. It was then that I invited Basil. Everything started out great: I lit
the candles, there was a bottle of wine, all sorts of conversations began. Then
I laid an old fur coat in front of the stove with burning coals (like a
fireplace). We lay down in front of the “fireplace”, and our passionate kisses,
cuddling, caresses began again.
At this point, all my happiness began to quickly give way to
disappointment. Something strange happened: Basil began to push my head closer
to his dick (the dick was of a decent size, one might say, big). Although I had
already heard about dick sucking, I was completely unprepared for this. I
thought that he would fuck me in the ass, I already gave myself enemas, but
I just had to take his dick in my mouth. Sucking cock it is not enough, it can
only be a prelude to real fucking.
And the most disgusting thing about it was that after I sucked his dick
(supposedly he believed that it was some dirty action), he no longer kissed me.
When I tried to approach his face, he abruptly turned away as if from someone
infectious. He turned out to be fucking hygienist.
I didn’t like it very much right away, but by inertia I was still in love
with him, still running after him, still waiting for situations of intimacy
with him. I hoped that he would eventually fuck me, but every time the same
thing happened. Kissing, sucking his cock, then not touching my lips as if I
were a leper. Fie on him!
Then I found out that he didn’t fuck women either. His sex life was limited
only to what we did from time to time - oral sex with me.
Finally, I got tired of it. We were friends, but I already avoided sexual
activities with him. This began to bother him. I remember how he once asked:
“Why don’t you want to be with me anymore, I have such a big one! You won't
find anyone with that big one."
In the end, I started feeling physical disgust for him. Somehow I
restrained myself, continued to play "friendship".
Despite the fact that we broke up, he invited me for a vacation to his
place in Tbilisi. I flew there in January 1967, lived with him almost in the
very center of the city (of course, with no sex). In Tbilisi, I was stunned by
the looks of Georgian men. I stared at them. However, any dating did not work
out, and there were no sexual innuendos. I did not yet know the meeting places
for men. One day, Basil said to me as if in jest: “Just don’t meet men at the
railway station.” I immediately rushed to the Tbilisi railway station, walked
around there for a long time, sat in the waiting room, but it never occurred to
me that I had to go into the public toilet there, where, apparently, something
could happen.
Ten years passed. Someone knocked on our door. On the threshold stood a
completely gray-haired, almost an old man - Basil. It seems that he stayed with
us then and lived for several days. Allegedly, he got married, a child was born
to him. It was in the year 1975, or about that time. In recent years, I travelled
to Tbilisi and sought him out. He is retired and lives completely alone. He is
eighty years old. It remains unclear to me what kind of mythical wife he has in
Greece. He is basically a narcissist. So he lived out his life being proud of his great tool, without getting along with
anyone.